Story: Mrs. Thompson and Teddy

There  is  a  story  many  years  ago  of  an elementary  teacher.  Her  name  was  Mrs. Thompson. And as she stood in front of her 5th  gradeclass  on  the  very  first  day  of school, she told the children a lie. Like most teachers, she looked at her students and said that  she  loved  them  all  the  same.  But  that was  impossible,  because  there  in  the  front row,  slumped  in  his  seat,  was  a  little  boy named Teddy.Mrs.  Thompson  had  watched  Teddy  the year  before  and  noticed  that  he didn't  play well with the other children, that his clothes were messy and that he constantly needed a bath.And Teddy could be unpleasant. It got to the point where Mrs. Thompson would actually take  delight  in  marking  his  papers  with  a broad  red  pen,  making  bold  X's  and  then putting a big "F" at the top of his papers. At   the   school   where   Mrs.   Thompson taught,she  was  required  to  review  each child's past records and she put Teddy's off until last.However, when she reviewed his file,she was in for a surprise.Teddy's first grade teacher wrote,"Teddy is a bright child with a ready laugh.He does his work neatly  and has  good manners...he is a joy to be around."His second grade teacher wrote,"Teddy is an   excellent   student,   well-liked   by   his classmates,but  he  is  troubled  because  his mother  has  a  terminal  illness  and  lifeat home must be a struggle."His third grade teacher wrote, "His mother's death has been hard on him.He tries to do his  best  but  his  father  doesn't  show  much interest   and   his   home   life   will   soon affect him if some steps aren't taken."Teddy's fourth grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is   withdrawn   and   doesn't   show   much interest  in  school.  He  doesn't  have  many friends and sometimes sleeps in class."By   now,   Mrs.   Thompson   realized   the problem and  she  was  ashamed  of  herself. She  felt  even  worse  when  her  students brought her Christmas presents, wrapped in beautiful  ribbons  and  bright  paper,  except for   Teddy's.   His   present   was   clumsily wrapped in the heavy,brown paper that he got from a grocery bag.Mrs. Thompson took pains to open it in the middle  of  the  other  presents.  Some  of  the children started to laugh  when she found  a rhinestone bracelet with some of the stones missing  and  a  bottle  that  was  one  quarter full  of  perfume.  She  stifled  the  children's laughter when she exclaimed how pretty the bracelet  was,  putting  it  on,  and  dabbing some of the perfume on her wrist.Teddy stayed after school that day just long enough to say, "Mrs. Thompson, today you smelled  just  like  my  Mom  used  to."  After the children  left  she  cried  for  at  least  an hour. On that very day, she quit teaching reading, and  writing,  and  arithmetic.  Instead,  she began to teach children.Mrs. Thompson paid particular attention to Teddy.  As  she  worked  with  him,  his  mind seemed   to   come alive.   The   more   she encouraged him, the faster he responded. By the end of the year, Teddy had become one of the smartest children in the the class and, despite  her  lie  that  she  would  love  all  the children  same,  Teddy  became  one  of  her "teacher's pets."A year  later,  she  found  a  note  under  her door,  from  Teddy,  telling  her  that  she  was still the best teacher he ever had in his whole life Six  years  went  by  before  she  got  another note from Teddy.He then wrote that he had finished  high  school,  second  in  his  class, and she was still the best teacher he ever had in his whole life.Four years after that, she got another letter, saying  that  while  things  had  been  tough  at times, he'd stayed in school, had stuck with it,  and  would  soon  graduate  from  college with the highest of honors. He assured Mrs. Thompson  that  she  was  still  the  best  and favorite  teacher  he  ever  had  in  his  whole life.Then   four   more   years   passed   and   yet another letter came. This time he explained that  after  he  got  his  bachelor's  degree,  he decided to  go  a  little  further.  The  letter explained  that  she  was  still  the  best  and favorite  teacher  he  ever  had.  But  now  his name  was  a  little  longer.  The  letter  was signed, Theodore F. Stollard, M.D.The story doesn't end there. You see, there was  yet  another  letter  that  spring.  Teddy said he'd met this girl  and was  going to be married.  He  explained  that  his  father  had died  a  couple of   years  ago  and  he  was wondering if Mrs. Thompson might agree to sit  in  the  place  at  the  wedding  that  was usually   reserved   for   the mother   of   the groom. Of course, Mrs. Thompson, did. And guess what? She wore that bracelet, the one with several rhinestones missing.And she made sure  she  was  wearing  the  perfume  that Teddy  remembered  his  mother  wearing  on their last Christmas together.They   hugged   each   other,   and   Teddy whispered in Mrs. Thompson's ear,"Thank you, Mrs. Thompson, for believing in  me.  Thank  you  so  much  for  making  me feel important and showing me that I could make a difference."Mrs.  Thompson,  with  tears  in  her  eyes, whispered back.She  said,  "Teddy,  you  have  it  all  wrong. You  were  the  one  who  taught  me  that  I could make a difference. I didn't know how to teach until I met you."