Who you are makes a difference

One night a man came home to his 14 –year-old  son  and  sat  him  down.  He  said,  "The most incredible thing happened to me today. I  was  in  my  office  and  one  of  the  junior executives  came  in  and  he  told  me  that  he admired me and gave me a blue ribbon for being creative genius. The blue ribbon that says 'Who I am makes a difference'. Then he gave  me  an  extra  ribbon  and  asked  me  to find  somebody  else  special  to  honor.  As  I wasdriving home tonight, I started thinking about whom I would honor with this ribbon and I thought about you.My days are really hectic, and when I come home,  I don't pay a lot of attention to  you. Sometimes  I  scream  at  you  for  not  getting enough good grades in school and for your bedroom   being   a   mess,   but   somehow tonight,  I just wanted to  sit here  and,  well, just  let  you  know  that  you  do  make  a difference  to  me.  Beside  your  mother,  you are  the  most  important  person  in  my  life. You're a great kid and I love you".The startled boy started to sob and sob, and he  couldn't  stop  crying.  His  whole  body shook. He looked up at his father and said, through his broken tears, "I was planning on committing suicide tomorrow, Dad, because I didn't think you loved me. Now Idon't need to do that."-Helice BridgesLove cures people –both the ones who give it and the ones who receive it.

-Karl Menninger